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  • Writer's pictureMette Bloch

Overcome Insecurity

Let's face it, we all have days where we're gripped by that uneasy feeling of insecurity. Those are the days when we're questioning our worth, our abilities, and even our existence.


You're not alone.


Everyone, no matter how accomplished or confident they appear, experiences insecurity at some point in their lives. But here's the silver lining: feeling insecure is not a life sentence. In fact, it's an opportunity to grow, to evolve, and most importantly, to understand ourselves better.

How do you do that? Well, you're in luck. 🍀


Today, I'm going to share three key steps to help you harness that feeling of insecurity and transform it into courage. Ready? Let's dive in!


Step 1: Acknowledge Your Insecurity

It might sound counterintuitive, but the first step is to acknowledge that you're feeling insecure. It's okay to be vulnerable. It's okay to feel uncertain. Ignoring or suppressing your feelings will only make them more intense. Once you acknowledge your insecurities, you're already halfway on your journey towards building more courage.

Start by finding a quiet space where you can self-reflect. Ask yourself what is causing these feelings of insecurity. Are you comparing yourself to others? Are you feeling less than capable in certain areas of your life? The aim here isn't to judge or berate yourself but to gain clarity and understanding.


Step 2: Practice Self-Compassion

Once you've pinpointed your insecurities, it's time to shower yourself with some much-deserved self-compassion. Too often, we're our own harshest critics, forgetting that everyone makes mistakes and has areas of improvement. Remember, it's okay not to be perfect. It's okay to have flaws. These things make us human and unique.

Begin by treating yourself as you would a friend in a similar situation. Would you belittle them or would you offer words of comfort? Learning to be kind to ourselves is a crucial step in overcoming insecurities. Whenever you find yourself slipping into a self-critical mode, pause and reframe your thoughts positively. This will not only soften your feelings of insecurity but also boost your self-esteem.


Step 3: Develop Courage Through Action

The final step involves action. Action is the antidote to fear and insecurity. Identify small steps you can take to address your insecurities. For example, if you're insecure about public speaking, you could sign up for a local toastmasters club or even start by practicing in front of a mirror or with a group of close friends. If you're feeling insecure about your skills, take up an online course or seek mentorship.

The key here is not to eliminate insecurity in one fell swoop, but to develop resilience and courage through continuous action. Remember, Rome wasn't built in a day! Every small step counts, and over time, you'll find your courage increasing and your insecurities fading.

Building courage in the face of insecurity isn't always a smooth road. You might experience setbacks, and that's okay. Don't be hard on yourself. Instead, view these moments as opportunities for growth. And remember, courage is not the absence of insecurity or fear. It's the determination to move forward despite them.


There you have it! Three steps to help you overcome insecurity and build courage. Remember, you're a work in progress, and that's what makes you special. Let's embrace our insecurities and allow them to be the stepping stones to our courage. After all, as they say, "It's not about being fearless, it




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